Let me tell you about the time I applied for my first job. Exciting times. Fresh-faced and insecure in my abilities, I was over the moon when I found out I’d passed the interview. Until they lowballed me so severely on the salary it’s a wonder I didn’t end up with broken kneecaps. Still, doubting my own qualifications—despite working every summer to get experience and studying relentlessly to make sure I graduated—I accepted without countering.
Now here’s the kicker. Six months in, I was chatting with a colleague who was both less qualified and far less invested than I was. Turns out, he was making an eye-wateringly higher amount of money than I was. Horrified, I asked what he’d done to deserve such royal treatment.
His answer? He’d asked for it.
And that, my friends, is the cost of imposter syndrome in a nutshell. It tricks you into undervaluing yourself, even when you already have the skills and experience to back up your worth.
Maybe this story rings true for you. Maybe you’ve had your own “aha” moment where you realized you were working against your future self by doubting your own greatness. Or maybe you still wrestle with it, and that’s okay. The good news is, shutting down imposter syndrome doesn’t mean becoming someone you’re not. It’s about recognizing the strengths you already bring to the table and learning to tap into them when doubt creeps in.
Personal growth starts the moment you decide to back yourself, no matter what.
What is imposter syndrome?
Imposter syndrome is that nagging voice in the back of your mind that tells you you’re not good enough, that you don’t really deserve your success, or that sooner or later someone’s going to “find you out.” If you know the one I’m talking about then rest assured, you’re not alone. In fact, research shows that up to 70% of people will experience these feelings at some point in their life. Including some of the most successful and accomplished professionals in their fields. Even Kate Winslet has famously said, “Sometimes I wake up in the morning before going off to a shoot, and I think, I can't do this. I'm a fraud.”, and she’s won an Oscar.
With its roots in psychology, imposter syndrome is linked to perfectionism, self-doubt, and fear of failure. Left unchecked, it can drain your energy, your confidence, and stall your career growth. It can even affect your mental health. It’s the weight on your chest that keeps you from blossoming into the you that you deserve to be.
Fortunately, there’s good news. You don’t need a fancy course or a whole new set of skills to overcome imposter syndrome. Trust me, you already have all the skills you need to take back control.
Skills such as logical reasoning to help you check the facts, communication skills that let you ask for what you deserve, and resilience which keeps you moving forward when self-doubt won’t stop whispering in your ear. By tapping into these talents you use every day, you can stop imposter syndrome from running the show and start seeing it for what it really is, a signal that you’re stretching, growing, and capable of more than you realize.
Take inventory of your wins: documentation
One of the simplest ways to fight imposter syndrome is to keep a record of what you’ve accomplished. A “things I’ve done” list might sound too simple to be effective, but it’s one of the clearest ways to show your brain exactly what it is you’ve achieved. Whether it’s sales results, projects completed, or things built, it serves as true, concrete evidence of what you’re capable of.
By having your accomplishments listed in black and white it means they’re not forgotten, and it stops you from diminishing your own success. You can refer back to it every time you start to feel those unwelcome thoughts creeping in, and remind yourself that you’re efficient, effective, and capable.
Stop comparing yourself to others: performance tracking
Replace “they’re ahead of me” with “I’m further than I was last year”. Performance tracking is all about learning to look in rather than out. It may feel difficult or unnatural in a culture designed to constantly show you what you should have or should be, but that’s what makes it so powerful. Instead of staying stuck in a destructive cycle of comparison, it puts the spotlight back on you and your own growth, forcing you to acknowledge your successes.
Track your progress in real time against your own benchmarks, no one else’s. Whether you use a spreadsheet, journal, or digital dashboard, set clear goals and measure your growth over time. Seeing that progress for yourself in real time is one of the fastest ways to silence imposter syndrome.
Share what you know: communication
One of the best ways to build confidence in your abilities is to share what you know with others. Teaching, mentoring, or simply explaining a concept to someone else can reveal—to both you and them—just how much expertise you already have.
Known as the “protégé effect,” research shows that when you teach someone else, you’re not just helping them, you’re helping yourself too. Explaining ideas out loud or in writing forces your brain to organize what you know, spot gaps in your knowledge, and cement the details. It makes the information real, and not just something “in your head”.
Over time, this habit doesn’t just help you learn, but it proves to you, again and again, that your skills are real, useful, and worth sharing. The more you teach, the more you believe in what you can do, and the more easily you can silence the voice in your head trying to convince you otherwise.
Reframe negative self-talk: logical reasoning
Don’t stand for negative self-talk, you need to be your own biggest cheerleader. Thoughts like “I’m not qualified” or “I can’t do this” happen to all of us, but they don’t help anyone. They crush you instead of building you up, and they don’t reflect the full truth of what you’re capable of.
The best way to fight these thoughts is with logical reasoning. When they appear, take a moment to consider exactly what they’re saying. For example, if “I can’t do this” pops up before a big presentation or a challenging project, pause and take a second to really reflect.
Deliberately recall all the past experiences you’ve had doing similar things. Whether those experiences went perfectly or not doesn’t matter. The point is to remind yourself of your hard-earned experience and expertise. Remind yourself of your skills, your accomplishments, and ask, “what facts show I belong here?” instead of just accepting doubt as fact.
By practicing this regularly, you retrain your mind to focus on objective reality, making imposter feelings less convincing and much easier to manage.
Avoid being overwhelmed: project management
Feeling overwhelmed usually comes from trying to handle everything at once, but you can ease it by breaking tasks into smaller, doable steps. Start by organizing your responsibilities into clear chunks, then tackle them one at a time. Rely on simple systems like calendars or to-do lists, to keep track of what matters without feeling scattered. This approach not only keeps you on top of tasks but also gives you a calmer, steadier sense of control.
Project management doesn’t always mean a multimillion-dollar deal or a project that takes dozens of professionals to coordinate. It can just as easily describe how you manage your kids’ busy schedules, organize your team’s holiday party, or keep track of your own personal goals and responsibilities across different areas of your life. When you look at it that way, you’ll see you’re likely an expert at project management already, and you’re far more capable of handling imposter syndrome than you might think.
Turning doubt into confidence
Even now (many) years later, I can’t help but think how different things might have been in my first job if I’d just trusted the skills I already had. If I’d documented my wins, shut out the self-doubt, and stopped comparing myself, I would’ve seen I was more than ready. I could’ve leaned on what I knew, applied it, and used logic to stay in control instead of being overwhelmed. I don’t blame that younger me—she was doing her best— but if only she’d realized she already had more than enough to fight for what she deserved.
And that’s the whole point, you don’t need to reinvent yourself to silence imposter syndrome, you just need to breathe deep and grab onto the tools you already have.
So, the next time that little voice pipes up, don’t shrink back, don’t rob yourself of an opportunity. Remind yourself that you belong here, you deserve this, and people have something to learn from you. The more you practice this, the easier it gets to choose confidence over doubt.
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